We’ve been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”
Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no S^X, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No se**x for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.
After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all her rules had to do with se**x. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months.
What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps was due to se**x and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have SE**X. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have s^x only when she wants and since she doesn’t want s^x often, we can go for several weeks without s^x. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary.
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Class dismissed 🥂
